Some Kind of Wonderful
maandag, maart 15th, 2010|
IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: A young tomboy, Watts, finds her feelings for her best friend, Keith, run deeper than just friendship when he gets a date with the most popular girl in school. Unfortunately, the girl’s old boyfriend, who is from the rich section of town, is unable to let go of her, and plans to get back at Keith. |
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Actors: Stoltz Eric,Sheffer Craig,Ashton John,Koteas Elias,Coffey Scott,Caridi Carmine,Comedy,Drama,Romance,
What can I do or say to give my boyfriend comfort?
A little over a month ago I met this amazing man. We hit it off instantly and decided to see each other exclusively. The first 16 days were absolutely wonderful..then his Mom’s uncle died and sent his Mom over the edge. She is 83 years old and has Alzeheimer’s. It got so bad they had to hospitalize her…she became very angry and combative. His father is in his 80’s as well and is not dealing with all this (not wanting to eat, shower, shave etc.). My boyfriend lives 3 hours from his parents and his 2 siblings live 6 hours away. My boyfriend immediately left to go North to be with his parents. His siblings came the next day. He has been there for 3 weeks now and whenever I talk to him or text him (not very often because he has to not only be there for his Mom but is trying to help his Dad deal with it) he sounds so very sad, depressed and angry. Both of his siblings are married, and have went home a few different times to be with their families. My boyfriend is retired (as well as his brother although his brother is married) so he has been the one to stay there to help with his parents because he isn’t married. My boyfriend did say to me that he hoped I could give him a little time and to be please be stable for him. I told him I would be here for him no matter what and that he could call anytime night or day if he needed someone to talk to. It is so hard that he is 3 hours away….and his family doesn’t even really know anything about our relationship. We had decided to wait to involve family to see if our relationship was going to work. I don’t want to intrude on his family and we both agreed now is not the time to discuss our relationship with his family….he doesn’t need to worry about that right now. I backed off on calling him and texting him, allowing him to be the one to call or text when he was available, I Iet him know that I was doing this because he told me his brother was starting to ask all kinds of questions about "us" and my boyfriend has enough on his plate without having to go into details about our relationship. I know from his texts and talking to him that he is hurting so bad…..I feel helpless as to what to do because our relationship is so new. If we had been together longer I would definitely be there by his side. He has a very tender heart, however he has told me he has had to harden himself in order to deal with all this emotion with his parents. He is a family first type of guy and I have told him that I admire him for all that he is doing. He will be coming home today for a couple of days. I am so excited to be able to see him, however I am not sure how to respond to him. He has had to keep all his feeling bottled up inside of him..I want to be able to say the right things to him and do the right things as well to soothe him. He said he was looking forward to seeing me however he didn’t know what shape he was going to be in….I told him that it was ok, that I am happy just to be able to see him and be near him….I want these couple of days that he is home to be so relaxing and soothing for him…..Please if anyone has any suggestions about any thing I can say or do for him….please let me know…My heart hurts because his is hurting.
He has been through a lot of trauma in these last 3 weeks, seemingly. I suggest you do not bring up the situation. Its just a reminder of his sadness, and when he sees you, you want it be uplifting and a positive experience. You could go out to dinner, suggest a movie, or simply take a walk. I think at this point both of you miss one another and if he wants to talk about it, he will bring it up to you. But if you ask too many questions you may make him sad/angry/distant. So try to not bring it up unless he is ready to, and rent movies, hang out, have sex, go out for thai food, something to take his mind off of what he has gone through. Good luck
tasty little crackers | Feb 07, 2010
Just love him, everything else will fall into place. Listen if he needs to talk, he might because of bottling everything up for so long. Hold him, let him know you care. Everything else will fall ito place once you sense his mood. Just be there…that’s what he needs right now. Plan a quiet night at home, just the 2 of you. Once he relaxes and unwinds he’ll feel better and so will you.
shy2008 | Feb 07, 2010